I always used to wonder about the beauty of the flower and then my doubt may seem to be strange. We give beautiful flower/s to others or someone and the truth is, the fact is, the reason we give is not simply that the flowers are beautiful, but the beauty on the other end is matchless.
Love could be blind. Anger could be blind. At least we could blame both blindness on some chemicals. There is no excuse for blindness due to selfishness, it is coldblooded, it is choosing to disregard others, it is false pride, ... it is ignoring the beauty of human qualities. Choose goodness.
When life is hectic somehow we go on with the flow and then when life slows down, we may even miss being hectic until the understanding is accepted that resting and relaxing is also part of normal life. Going with the flow in life without any esteem is like a carcass flowing with the currents of the world, anything with life will try to swim against the currents, against flowing along with senseless currents of life, with a desire for goodness to save oneself, to keep the beautiful Image of the soul. 
We often look for honest and pure love around. There may be only one reality that has to be learned about love, true love never creates negativity as the true nature of love in itself is moving towards positivity, beauty, encouragement, goodness, promises, ... The realization that "We love because God first loved us" (1Jn 4:19) is the beginning of having honest and pure love within than looking around and then true nature of love is like waves of living miracles. 
On one side we see people blinded with
greediness for money and power and even comfort and on the other hand
those who are committed and overt towards love and honesty. Yes, one is
doomed forever and the other gives life forever. One welcomes an
overflow of materialism and the other welcomes the humanity with all its
beauty, love, joy, care and communion.
A good deed remains a good deed forever. There
are always things that are indelible and that lasts forever and it
happens only out of true sense of love and care. Things made of
everything else just remains as various forms of negativity. 
There is no place without Light, we just fail
to see it in pitch darkness. There are always vicious circles, the
circles of negativity around which may look like in deep darkness, but
the reality remains, even the glimpse of Light just breaks it or
transforms it. 
We being mortals often forget the basic
reality that end do come unexpectedly. May be we hide ourselves on
thoughts like, anyway end will come - let us enjoy then, life is short -
let us enjoy then, ... or we are just afraid of the word death.
May be it is just a fear that could be easily cancelled by practicing
goodness, practicing forgiveness, ... It is indeed worth to prepare the
heart to welcome all sorts of unexpected surprises ;-). 
If we are falling into something, it should be
a fall with the whole heart and then an attempt to turn back will give
us the glimpse of everlasting profound qualities that the heart is
capable of. Just looking at something is just superficial
and falling wholeheartedly for something has an unmeasurable depth and a
span that includes beauty, joy, love, trust and sacrifice... Then, the
words get meaningful, simple and even practically possible, "There is no
greater love than to lay down one's life for one's friends." 
